Let's Make 2026 a Year of Kindness
by Marion Hewitt | 2 January 2026
Small acts of kindness can quietly change how we feel, how we connect, and how society functions. What if we made that a conscious intention for 2026?
I was prompted to write this blog whilst reflecting on the factors that can make the Christmas period feel special, regardless of its wider meaning to us as individuals. My thinking was that it was around how we often have increased connection with those that are important to us and experience more kindness.
In part this is due to some of the pressures of daily life being reduced giving us more time, but it is also about wider mindset and a subtle shift in how we relate to one another. We pause more readily and small gestures of care are demonstrated and experienced. A simple example, on Christmas morning I went for a short walk and so many people I passed smiled, said ‘hello’, ‘Happy Christmas’, or acknowledged me in a way I am unlikely to experience on a normal weekday morning – a small act of acknowledgement, kindness and connection that had meaning for me. These moments rarely take much time or money, yet they often leave us feeling calmer, more connected, and a little more hopeful.
What is easy to overlook is that this uplift in mood is not accidental or purely sentimental, it is rooted in kindness. It feels sad in a way that we have to research a topic like this to evidence its value, however, findings show that kindness towards others, and kindness towards ourselves, supports wellbeing in ways that are both immediate and cumulative. It does not need to be grand gestures or linked to a specific event; small, everyday acts are enough to make a meaningful difference, both individually and collectively.
Rather than leaving this behind once January routines return, 2026 offers an opportunity to practise kindness more intentionally.
The science Behind Small Acts of Kindness
Kindness has such a powerful effect because it shifts our attention and energy. When we act kindly, or when kindness is shown to us, our nervous system moves away from threat and into connection. Research on random acts of kindness consistently shows increases in happiness, positive affect and life satisfaction for those who give, not just those who receive. What matters most is not the scale of the act, but the intention behind it and the frequency with which it is repeated.
One of the most fascinating findings from kindness research is that kindness spreads. Receiving kindness increases the likelihood that someone will act kindly towards another person, even when the next recipient is a stranger. This “pay it forward” effect means that a single small act can create a ripple that extends far beyond the original interaction. At a societal level, this matters because repeated everyday kindness helps rebuild trust, reinforce norms of care, and strengthen the social fabric we all rely on. Findings in the World Happiness Report highlight that believing others are kind is itself a powerful predictor of happiness, sometimes even more influential than income or material security.
Showing Kindness Towards Ourself
When kindness is discussed, it is often framed as something we offer outwardly. Yet kindness towards self, commonly referred to as self-compassion which I write about frequently, is foundational to sustainable wellbeing. Self-compassion research shows that how we respond to ourselves in moments of difficulty has a profound impact on mental health, resilience, and emotional balance.
Many people are far harsher on themselves than they would ever be on someone they care about. This inner criticism is often justified as motivation, yet evidence suggests it tends to increase anxiety, reduce resilience, and drain emotional resources. Self-compassion offers an alternative. It involves acknowledging that difficulty is part of the shared human experience, allowing space for uncomfortable emotions without becoming overwhelmed by them, and responding with care rather than judgement.
Practised over time, self-kindness reduces unnecessary psychological strain and supports steadier wellbeing. Importantly, it does not make people complacent or self-centred. Research indicates the opposite: people who practise self-compassion tend to show greater compassion towards others. When we are not constantly battling ourselves internally, it makes sense that we have more capacity to notice, empathise with, and respond to those around us.
Making Kindness Practical and Sustainable
One of the reasons kindness is such a powerful wellbeing lever is that it is accessible. It does not require perfect circumstances, spare time, or financial resources. It can be incorporated into ordinary routines. A kinder inner response on a difficult day, a thoughtful message to someone you know, or a moment of patience with a stranger all count.
Research also suggests that noticing kindness matters. Studies have found that simply paying attention to kind acts, including our own, can increase happiness further. Attention reinforces behaviour. What we notice, we tend to repeat.
A Call to Action for 2026
As we look ahead to 2026, each of us has the capacity to make a difference in three interconnected ways.
- We can make a difference to ourselves by practising self-kindness when things feel hard, choosing compassion over criticism, and recognising that caring for our own wellbeing is not selfish, but necessary.
- We can make a difference to those around us by offering small, sincere acts of kindness to the people we know, strengthening relationships that support both wellbeing and resilience.
- Collectively we can make a difference across society by extending everyday kindness to strangers, paying forward the care we receive, and contributing to a culture where trust, connection and humanity are more visible.
Practised intentionally and consistently, kindness has the potential to support individual wellbeing, strengthen relationships, and quietly improve the society we share.
As the New Year start, what small act of kindness will you choose to begin 2026?
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